The Couples Post

We are so very over Covid -19 -- Zoom meetings, air hugs, frightful news, conflicting information, data overload and face masks -- All of it!  We long for real gatherings, real hugs, and the freedom to breathe in the air without worry.

You’re scrolling through a social media feed and you see happy selfies, beautiful date nights, a tantalizing plate of chocolate covered strawberries with a caption that says, “My hubby is the best!” You pause and think to yourself, ‘how do they do it?’ Our relationship doesn’t look like that.

As the Covid-19 quarantine drags on, one thing is clear – we are all collectively grieving.We lament the loss of our freedom, vacations, jobs, financial stability, sporting events, milestone celebrations, social activities, and missed opportunities, such as holding a newborn grandchild.We ache for physical touch and long to greet our loved ones with hugs and kisses. Even more acutely, we mourn the loss of beloved family and friends who have died during this time, deprived of the funeral they deserve and keeping us from comfort and closure.We also grieve the mounting death toll in our communities and our world.

Ken:  For better or worse, for richer or poorer, in good times and bad... that's what we signed up for.  But when difficulties arise it's hard to recall the passion we had on our wedding day.  If you're going through hard times right now, how do you find your way through?