Phones at the Dinner Table Discussion Questions

What are my thoughts and feelings about your/my cell phone usage during meal time?

What are my attitudes and thoughts about how technology affects our relationship?

What goes through my mind when you’re on the phone during ‘us’ time?

How can we better handle our differences in technology attitudes?

What types of technology cause friction between us?

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My (insert cuss word) Valentine

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